常常心底升起一丝丝遗憾

一个即将人母的女儿的遗憾

却不知要如何做起

犹如一堵高墙，隔断了彼此

犹如万支利剑，刺透了心脾

不明白为何付出人力物力财力还要被无理指摘

不明白为何搬弄是非却可以得到僻护宠爱

失望，痛心，愤怒，无奈，放弃

常常劝慰自己

淡漠其言，凭心处理

 

放下自在

一切随缘

 

 

 

 

 

 

生活的无奈，不顺，烦恼，忧愁，伤痛，失望，甚至愤怒。。。好像是31岁的主旋律。不断接受最亲近的人们带来的伤害和压力。

 

然而总是对生活充满希望和乐观。就算这一分钟发生什么不快的事情，下一分钟我还是要快乐的面对。没有咒骂，没有怨言，没有埋怨。

 

刚刚删掉一篇昨天的博客，因为不想说是非。说那些是与非，其实谁又真的关心谁。孰是孰非，良心和老天的评判才是准则。日子还是要看自己要怎么过。心态对了，再大的委屈也可以一笑了之；再大的挫折也可以顺利通过。

 

今天又是生日，感慨良多。希望32岁的自己更成熟，更加有智慧地去生活！

 

Vivian, 加油！！

 

 

 

生活进入了一个新的阶段

我也把自己的网络新窝重新安置

向往，并致力于建造一个亲密，温暖，快乐温柔的空间

不仅在网络上，也在现实生活中。。。。。。

真正关心我的亲人朋友们会从内心从言行爱护我，爱护我的小家

我们在狂风暴雨中坚守下来了

而老天也看到了我们对彼此的衷心，对爱情的维护，和对家庭的责任

我们更加相信，

不离不弃，相濡以沫，坦诚信任会让我们无惧未来路上的坎坷

无需太多文字，生活是用心经营的

就让我们净心，精心生活吧

欢迎来我们的新窝 欢璟地 做客

 

 

决定再次封笔

不是因为没有什么可写

而是太多太多感触不能文字记载

 

生活是用心去品味

往往过多曝光、牢骚、无心之语会引来不必要的干扰

 

 

幸福就这么突然降临了

The happiness just arrived without any sign. Now my life upgrade to a totaly new stage.

我不再是一个人，生病了有人牵挂，难过了有人逗笑，开心了有人更开心

这一切很难用言语形容，这过程难以让人相信

也许，真的存在一股无形的力量左右着凡人的际遇

我只能惊叹那些巧合

Is it sixth sense or just a coincidence?

冥冥中，我们感知着对方的存在

We share too many similarities

It is really amazing, and unbelievable

以后的生活还很漫长

也许会争吵，会烦躁，会冷战

但更多的是理解，体谅，包容

当然少不了这份发自心底的爱

约定这一生不离不弃, 如影随形

For better or worse

 

Since this May, my life here has been experiencing dramatic changes.

 

There are many add-ons in the work, more responsibilities, more challenging, higher expectations and much more stress. At the meanwhile, my routine daily life is interrupted. I have to get used to the new lifestyle. Suddenly every aspect of my life was changed. I have been too busy to cope with them, work, family, and love. No pain no gain. However, the God seems to test me, a very tough test. Sometimes I feel myself like an eagle with clipped wings. Sometimes, I fear the happiness would only lead me chase its shadow. Sometimes I was frustrated, stressed, tired and lost the direction. But many times I was encouraged, motivated, and inspired by our shared dream—somewhere outside here—a kind of simple and meaningful life with loved one.

 

There are so many matters to be ironed out before the dream can become true. Let me follow the power of the nature. Don't be rush, don't be hush, be relaxed, and keep smiling......

 

I trust the God of fate always treats me well. Now, I just wait for the day to come. 

 

 

 

 

爸爸，哥哥和我常笑谈到，我们要“紧密团结在老妈周围，坚定不移地贯彻执行老妈的各项方针政策”。

 

很庆幸能降生在这个家庭。虽然这个家庭没有给我家财万贯，没有给我显赫地位，虽然在争吵的环境长大，虽然小时候兄妹常顽皮大打出手，虽然还有很多不尽人意的地方，但是家人是真诚的，互助关爱的。每当情绪低潮，都会打电话回家，就算听妈妈天南地北乱侃，也会让自己找到力量继续前进。妈妈就好像太阳，把我们这些散游的小行星维系起来，绕着家公转自转。我和哥哥正在为了一个愿望努力着。即使代价是告别无拘无束的独处生活，我也希望愿望成真，那应该是给妈妈最好的礼物了。

 

母亲节快乐！

 

 

2008中国年已经过了

多年来终于和父母一起高高兴兴地过了一个年

吃了团圆饭，包了饺子，逛了总统府

还去了趟泰国渡了个假

 

这个年过的很热闹，很开心！

 

过完年，就要开始新的一年的生活

很多要做的事情

好的，加油！

一年比一年更好

5 THINGS YOU NEVER KNEW
YOUR CELL PHONE COULD DO 

There are a few things that can be done in times of grave emergencies.
Your mobile phone can actually be a life saver or an emergency tool for
survival. Check out the things that you can do with it.

First Emergency
The Emergency Number worldwide for Mobile is 112. If you find yourself out of
the coverage area of your mobile; network and there is an emergency, dial 112 and
the mobile will search any existing network to establish the emergency number for
you, and interestingly this number 112 can be dialed even if the keypad is locked.
Try it out.

Second
Have you locked your keys in the car? Does your car have remote keyless
entry? This may come in handy someday. Good reason to own a cell phone:
If you lock your keys in the car and the spare keys are at home, call someone
at home on their cell phone from your cell phone. Hold your cell phone about
a foot from your car door and have the person at your home press the unlock
button, holding it near the mobile phone on their end. Your car will unlock.
Saves someone from having to drive your keys to you. Distance is no object.
You could be hundreds of miles away, and if you can reach someone who has
the other 'remote' for your car, you can unlock the doors (or the trunk).
(Bill and I tried this and it DID unlock the car doors!)

Third
Hidden Battery Power
Imagine your cell battery is very low. To activate, press the keys *3370# Your
cell will restart with this reserve and the instrument will show a 50% increase in
battery. This reserve will get charged when you charge your cell next time.

Fourth 
How to disable a STOLEN mobile phone?
To check your Mobile phone's serial number, key in the following digits on your
 phone: * # 0 6 # A 15 digit code will appear on the screen. This number is unique
to your handset. Write it down and keep it somewhere safe. When your phone
get stolen, you can phone your service provider and give them this code. They
will then be able to block your handset so even if the thief changes the SIM card,
your phone will be totally useless. You probably won't get your phone back, but
at least you know that whoever stole it can't use/sell it either. If everybody does
 this, there would be no point in people stealing mobile phones.
And Finally....

Fifth 
Free Directory Service for Cells Cell phone companies are charging us $1.00
to $1.75 or more for 411 information calls when they don't have to. Most of us
do not carry a telephone directory in our vehicle, which makes this situation
even more of a problem. When you need to use the 411 information option,
simply dial: (800) FREE 411, or (800) 373-3411 without incurring any charge
at all. Program this into your cell phone now

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

在家蜗居了两天, 今天傍晚终于莲花移步去楼下觅食.

刚要开口点菜, 一个英气十足的印度小伙热情的用标准华语招呼

"美女, 点什么?"

"....."

"美女喝水吗?, 自制的意米水, 清热去火..."

......

然后一转头, 用地道的福建话, 向我后面的小男生

"眼捣, 爱加蹦迈"(帅哥, 要吃饭吗?)

等我买好后, 他又在热情的招呼马来同胞, 当然用马来语.

我晕倒~

除了他自己的母语(且不论他会HIDU 还是THAMIL或者都会), 华语, 福建, 马来, 英语

他竟然(至少)会5种语言.

早就领教过印度人的语言天份

可是他的华语发音之标准, 是一般新加坡人所不及的, 甚至比某些中国人都标准

真是五体投地! 想想自己....

才蜗居两天, 就受这刺激...

 

 

(张小娴)

 

事实往往是残忍的, 只不过人们不愿去直视面对.

那一层纸一旦捅破, 恐怕也只是尴尬收场.

 

 

 

缘起缘落都被不可抗拒的力量操纵着。以前曾经在困境中相互鼓励的朋友，却在顺境中断了联络。聚聚散散好象已经成为生活中的平常事，再激不起任何涟漪。

此刻的生活如此简单和平淡，享受着这随性快乐的生活。但似乎并没达到传统世俗的要求，仿佛自己在某种程度上变成了影响社会前进的阻碍。周围的人都好象迫不及待的要把我推进那个围城，考验我对“宁缺勿滥，快乐简单”生活理念的坚持。某一天猛然发现自己和某种错综复杂的身份竟一念之隔。理智上非常理解他们的用心良苦，可是情感上却难以接受。原来已经变成了滞销货，只能买一送一了。 哈哈，我不知道是要为自己悲哀，还是要自嘲。是自己要求太完美，还是本就该孑然一身，乐得逍遥。也许说不怕独自终老一生是自欺欺人，但绝不要为了顺从传统世俗的观念而委曲求全。始终还是向往简单的事物，简单的人际关系和简单的生活。

这就是我的生活吧， 充满了矛盾，未知，考验，当然还有期待。

 

 

最近脾气有些烦躁, 突然间情绪变化, 搞的身边的朋友不知所措.

可能因为太过劳累, 休息不够吧. (据HLeng说, 是肝热的表现--眼睛干, 手心热, 脾气燥)

不过不管怎样, 也不能任由大小姐的脾气乱SHOOT, 少了分寸

要时刻自省, 不可拿珍贵的友情来冒险.

虽然朋友心胸开阔, 不以为然

但还是觉得抱歉, 保证不会历史重演.

 

更重要的还是要找到生活, 工作和娱乐的平衡点. 我可不想变成高傲不可一世的女强人; 孤僻自闭的工作狂人; 或者性格古怪的"大龄青年". 我喜欢和朋友打成一片, 喜欢和小猪玩作一团, 喜欢朋友聚会时多做一点没成就感的杂工, 喜欢开玩笑即使偶尔被当成开玩笑的对象....

 

二话不说了, 马上喝菊花洋参茶去肝热, 降降温~

 

 

＊＊人很奇怪．总是要争一些其实自己并不想要的东西．因为有了短暂的使用权，所以开始向往所有权．并不去弄清楚自己的心到底要什莫．也许这就是人性的弱点，贪婪和自私．

 

＆＆慢一点再慢一点．．．好像每天都在匆忙的赶时间．就连周末出去买东西都好像在赛跑．生活不是这样的，脚步慢一点，再慢一点．．．

 

 

 

Really miss those relaxed, slow paced and care-free days in Phuket!

 

 

听说宝贝琳琳要订婚了。

这小妮子动作挺快，跑到姐前边去了。

不过如果等我， 估计二姨要急吐血了。

姐只能遥祝了。

真的很开心，大熊熊之后就是你了。

他不错的，和你有夫妻相

记住得到的就是最好的，

你可要安安心心踏踏实实过日子。

遇到事情，两个人要心平气和的沟通，多点包容，多点体谅

这样婚姻才幸福长久。

 

还有，订婚没礼物。

要想要大礼， 就快点结婚。

哈哈。。。。。。

（等你们的照片）